R. K. AGRAWAL, J. ( 1 ) THE present appeal under Section 19 of the Family Courts Act, 1984 has been filed by Smt. Renu, wife of Sri Sanjay Singh, against the judgment and decree dated 18. 3. 1998 passed by the family Court. Meerut, whereby the petition for divorce filed by the husband Sri Sanjay Singh has been decreed on the ground of cruelly. The Judge, Family Court. Meerut, while passing decree for divorce had directed the husband Sanjay Singh to return Hero Honda motorcycle. Washing Machine, Colour T. V. , Double Bed and Steel Almirah to the appellant. ( 2 ) THE facts giving rise to the present appeal briefly stated are as follows : according to the plaintiff, his marriage was solemnised on 18. 12. 1994 with the appellant at meerut. Despite being together, they did not have any issue. The plaintiff is the only son of his parents whereas the appellant is the eldest among the three sisters. According to the plaintiff, he got inflicted with certain disease called herpes sometimes after his marriage which the appellant took as leprosy. The appellant neither took care not looked after him and started misbehaving and abusing. She went to her parents place on 6. 3. 1995 and inspite of his best effort to bring her back, the appellant was not prepared to come back from her parents house. On the other hand, she started pressuring him to live along with her in her parents house. According to the case set up by the husband, the appellant did not fulfil her marital obligation and started abusing his parents and sister, which caused mental agony to him. Succumbing to her pressure, the plaintiff went with the appellant on 17. 3. 1995 to live with her parents, but after sometime she started pressurising the plaintiff to ask for his share in the property from his parents and to start business from the money which he would get, to which the plaintiff did not agree. According to the plaintiff, he was humiliated and he refused to live with the appellant. He wanted to live separately and to earn his livelihood independently by doing some work on which the appellant became angry and asked him to leave the house. According to the plaintiff, he was humiliated and he refused to live with the appellant. He wanted to live separately and to earn his livelihood independently by doing some work on which the appellant became angry and asked him to leave the house. The plaintiff was forced to live in a hotel for about 11 days and on account of financial hardship, he had to leave the hotel on 28. 5. 1995. The appellant did not come to see him. The behaviour of the appellant right from the very beginning was full of cruelty on account of which the plaintiff suffered physical and mental agony. On these facts, the plaintiff had filed a petition seeking dissolution of the marriage and divorce. ( 3 ) THE appellant filed her written statement in which she had denied the allegations made by her husband. She stated that at the time of marriage, it was told that the plaintiff had passed his engineering course from Bangalore and was to get a good service in the near future. Her father had spent about Rs. 5 lacs in the marriage and had given Rs. 2 lacs in cash apart from various items like Hero Honda motorcycle. BPL Colour T. V. , Washing machine, Steel Almirah, refrigerator, Clothes, utensils and furniture, etc. The plaintiff and his parents in spite of the aforesaid items having been given, started asking for more dowry and when her parents did not meet the demand of the plaintiff, he left her in her parents house on 17. 5. 1995. Inspite of her efforts, her husband was not prepared to take her back, as the demand for dowry was not being met by her parents. She denied of ever having misbehaved with his parent or abusing them. She also denied the fact that he had lived permanently in her parents house and had visited her parents house as a relation. She further stated that he is a lazy person and had not made any attempt to earn his livelihood, which resulted in frequent disputes in the family. Her parents have no concern with the property of his parents and had never interfered in the matter. She denied that her parents had ever humiliated him. She further stated that the present petition for divorce has been filed, as the plaintiff wants to re-marry. Her parents have no concern with the property of his parents and had never interfered in the matter. She denied that her parents had ever humiliated him. She further stated that the present petition for divorce has been filed, as the plaintiff wants to re-marry. On these facts, she prayed that the petition for divorce filed by her husband be dismissed. ( 4 ) ON the pleadings of the parties, the Family Court framed the following two issues : (i) Whether the defendant had acted with cruelty with the plaintiff and if so, its effect? (ii) Relief. ( 5 ) THE plaintiff had examined himself and Harpal Singh as witnesses whereas the defendant had appeared as sole witness. ( 6 ) THE Family Court on the consideration of the evidence came to the conclusion that the defendant had acted with cruelty. Since the efforts for reconciliation had failed, the Judge. Family Court came to the conclusion that there is no alternative but to grant a decree for divorce. The Family Court further found that it is unbelievable that the father of the defendant would have given Rs. 2 lacs in cash at the time of marriage when the income of her father is only Rs. 6,000 per month out of which Rs. 1,000 is spent towards rent of the house and her two sisters are studying at Vanasthali and Delhi. The Family Court, however, found that her father had given hero Honda motorcycle, BPL colour T. V. Washing machine. Steel Almirah, Refrigerator. Sofa set. clothes. Utensil and furniture at the time of marriage which is liable for being returned back to her. ( 7 ) BEFORE proceeding to decide the appeal on merits, a sincere effort was made by us for reconciliation between the parties. Both the appellant Smt, Renu and the respondent Sanjay singh along with their father were present in Court on 18. 8. 1999. The matter was discussed individually with the appellant and the respondent so that better sense could prevail on each of them. However, no breakthrough could be achieved on that day and it was felt that both the parties be given some more time to think over the matter. The matter was then directed to be listed on 1. 9. 1999. However, on 1. 9. 1999 talks of reconciliation failed. However, no breakthrough could be achieved on that day and it was felt that both the parties be given some more time to think over the matter. The matter was then directed to be listed on 1. 9. 1999. However, on 1. 9. 1999 talks of reconciliation failed. We were left with no other alternative but to proceed in the matter on merits. ( 8 ) AS already mentioned above, the petition for divorce filed by the husband Sri Sanjay Singh has been decreed on the ground of cruelly. The instances of cruelty have been stated by the plaintiff in paragraph Nos. 7. 9, 11 and 12 of the petition. ( 9 ) THE first instance of cruelty as stated by the plaintiff is that in the first week of November, 1995, he got the disease Herpes, which took about a month to recover and during which period she (his wife) took it as leprosy and started treating him as a patient of leprosy. According to the plaintiff, the appellant did not look after him nor gave medicine or food and instead misbehaved with the persons who came to see him. She had gone to her parents house on 6. 3. 1995 with his permission and lived there for about one and half months and did not come back inspite of his best efforts. ( 10 ) THE second instance of cruelty stated by the plaintiff is that she did not take care of the house and did not discharge her responsibilities towards the house. She started abusing his parents and sister and also persons who came to meet him. ( 11 ) THE third instance of cruelty stated by the plaintiff is the regular taunts and comments which her parents used to make when the plaintiff had come to live along with the appellant in her parents house and when he refused to take financial help from her parents, he was turned out from his inlaws house. The plaintiff felt humiliated and could not forget the humiliation meted out by her and her parents. ( 12 ) ON the aforesaid three instances of cruelty alleged by the plaintiff, it has been inferred that the attitude of the appellant was bad from the very beginning and it will not be possible for him to continue in the married life with her. All these allegations have been denied by the appellant. ( 12 ) ON the aforesaid three instances of cruelty alleged by the plaintiff, it has been inferred that the attitude of the appellant was bad from the very beginning and it will not be possible for him to continue in the married life with her. All these allegations have been denied by the appellant. ( 13 ) THE plaintiff in his deposition has stated that his wife had gone to her parents house on 6. 3. 1995 when he had not completely recovered from his illness. He had also admitted that he brought her back from her parents house after about one and a half months. Thereafter, on 17. 5. 1995, he along with his wife had gone to live in his inlaws house where he lived upto 14. 9. 1995. According to the plaintiff, he was not given food regularly and only for about 10-15 days in a month he was given food. In the cross-examination, he had stated that even when he was not given food, he did not leave his inlaws house as he had gone to live there on the assurance that he will be given some employment/service. In his cross-examination, he had not levelled any allegation of ill-treatment or humiliation meted out by them during their stay in his inlaws house. The humiliation and ill-treatment is attributed only on the ground that his relations with his in laws became strained on account of the failure of his in-law to provide employment/service to him. He had further admitted that prior to 17. 5. 1995 the visit of his wife to her parents house was in the normal course and he used to go to drop her. The allegation of misbehaviour on the part of his wife which has been alleged by the plaintiff is all prior to 17. 5. 1995. Except for aforementioned misbehaviour, as stated by him in his cross-examination he admits that there is nothing special. He had further stated that the items given by his in-laws cannot be treated as dowry and he had not asked for any dowry. ( 14 ) THE other witness Har Pal Singh, who is the father of the plaintiff had admitted in his cross-examination that in order to avoid any quarrel in the house his son agreed to go to his inlaws house. He admitted that the appellant had not abused him. ( 14 ) THE other witness Har Pal Singh, who is the father of the plaintiff had admitted in his cross-examination that in order to avoid any quarrel in the house his son agreed to go to his inlaws house. He admitted that the appellant had not abused him. According to him, the quarrel, if any, between his son and the appellant was only with regard to living together with him in the same house. The appellant in her deposition had stated that she had never abused her in-laws. In her marriage, her parents had given various items and Rs. 2 lacks in cash. Her in-laws were fully satisfied with the dowry. Since her husband was not doing any work, the tension in the family started building up on account of the taunts of her in-laws. She looked after her husband during his illness and denied to have ever said that her husband is suffering from Leprosy. She loves her husband and wants to live with him. According to Smt. Renu, her husband had left her parents house and had gone to his parents house without taking her. ( 15 ) IN the background of the aforementioned pleadings of the parties and the evidence on record. It is to be seen as to whether the appellant had treated the appellant with cruelty after the solemnisation of the marriage as envisaged under Section 13 (i) and (ii) of the Hindu Marriage act, 1955, so as to entitle the plaintiff to get a decree of divorce. Section (13) (i) and (ii) of the act is reproduced below : "13. Divorce.-- (1) Any marriage solemnised, whether before or after the commencement of this act, may, on a petition presented by either the husband or the wife, be dissolved by a decree of divorce on the ground that the other party : (i) has after the solemnisation of a marriage, had voluntary sexual intercourse with any person other than his or her spouse ; or (ia) has after the solemnisation of the marriage, treated the petitioner with cruelty. " however, in the State of U. P. sub-section (ia) has been substituted by the following : uttar Pradesh : in its application to Hindus domiciled in U. P. and also when either party to the marriage was not at the time of marriage a Hindu domiciled in U. P. , in Section 13 : in sub-section (1), clause (i) insert the following : " (ia) has persistently or repeatedly treated the petitioner with such cruelty as to cause a reasonable apprehension in the mind of the petitioner that it will be harmful or injurious for the petitioner to live with the other party. " ( 16 ) THUS, for getting a decree of divorce, the plaintiff has not only to prove that he has been treated with cruelty after the solemnisation of the marriage, but has persistently or repeatedly been treated with such cruelly as to cause a reasonable apprehension in his mind that it will be harmful or injurious for him to live with the other party. ( 17 ) THE instances of cruelty alleged by the plaintiff had already been elaborated above. No about in para 12 of the petition, the plaintiff had stated that the conduct of the opposite party, i. e. , the appellant has been very bad since the very beginning so as it has become impossible for him to live together and continue with the married life in future and he has been mentally and physically tortured by the opposite party to such an extent that it is impossible to live with her. However, this statement is not corroborated by the plaintiff or his father in their deposition, when they appeared as witnesses. On the other hand, it is categorically admitted by the plaintiff that except for misbehaviour with his parents, sister and friends during her stay at his house, there is nothing else or special against her. Thus, the mere alleged misbehaviour by the appellant with his parents or friends do not fulfil the requirement of clause (ia) of sub-section (1) of Section/13 of the aforesaid Act as applicable in the State of U. P. So far as the alleged misbehaviour or cruelty attributed to the appellant during the plaintiffs stay with her in her parents house is concerned, the plaintiff himself had deposed that the humiliation was being done by his in-laws. No act of cruelty has been attributed to the appellant during the said period by the plaintiff in his deposition. Thus, the plaintiff has failed to prove that the appellant had persistently or repeatedly treated the plaintiff with cruelty. The ingredients of clause (ia) of sub-section (1) of Section 13 of the Act, are not at ail fulfilled in the present case, so as to entitle the plaintiff for a decree of divorce. ( 18 ) THE Family Court had recorded the finding of cruelty on the ground that according to the written statement, the appellant side was led to believe that the plaintiff is an engineering graduate and the marriage was solemnised by playing fraud. Further, the plaintiff is a lazy person and does not want to do any work and if they had known this fact, they would not have married their daughter with the plaintiff nor they would have spent so much money in the marriage. On these inferences, the Family Court had attributed the motive of cruelty on the appellant side. The family Court while recording the finding of cruelty had misread the evidence adduced by the parties. ( 19 ) WE have already referred the evidence of the parties and find that the plaintiff and his witnesses have failed to prove the factum of cruelty in their deposition. Thus, the finding recorded by the Family Court cannot be sustained and are hereby set aside. The petition for divorce filed by the plaintiff is liable to be dismissed. However, we find that the appellant will not be able to lead a happy married life with the plaintiff on account of his adamant attitude. which we had seen during the course of reconciliation proceedings before us. ( 20 ) FACED with this situation, we had asked the appellant as to whether she would like to consider any other option. The appellant and her father, who were present in the Court on 1. 9. 1999 left the matter to the discretion of the Court and said that they will abide by whatever orders are passed taking into consideration the welfare and interest of the appellant. ( 21 ) FROM the attitude of the plaintiff and his father, who were present in the Court on 18. 8. 1999 and 1. 9. 9. 1999 left the matter to the discretion of the Court and said that they will abide by whatever orders are passed taking into consideration the welfare and interest of the appellant. ( 21 ) FROM the attitude of the plaintiff and his father, who were present in the Court on 18. 8. 1999 and 1. 9. 1999, we are satisfied that whatever be the reasons, this marriage has broken down and the parties can no longer live together as husband and wife, if such is the situation, it is better to close the chapter as laid own by the Honble Supreme Court in the case of Saroj Rani v. Sudarshan Kumar Chadha. (1984) 4 SCC 90 . ( 22 ) IN Chandralekha Trivedi (Smt.) v. Dr. S. P. Trivedi. (1993) 4 SCC 232 , the Honble Supreme court had held that if a marriage was dead and there was no chance of it being retrieved, it was better to bring it to an end. Similar view was taken by the Honble Supreme Court in the case of romesh Chander v. Smt. Savitri, AIR 1995 SC 51. ( 23 ) IN the present case, the husband is adamant not to take the appellant back and insists upon dissolution of the marriage. Since 1995 they are living separately and had not met each other except in this Court in the reconciliation proceedings. For all practical purposes, their marriage is dead and cannot be retrieved. No useful purpose would be served by directing the husband to take the appellant back as in that event the life of the appellant would become more miserable. ( 24 ) IN para 18 of her written statement, she had categorically stated that apart from Hero Honda, motorcycle, washing machine, colour T. V. and furniture etc. , her parents had given Rs. 2 lacs in dowry which fact has been corroborated by her in her deposition. There is no reason to disbelieve her statement. The items given by her parents at the time of her marriage is in the use of the plaintiff. Taking into account the amount of cash of Rs. 2 lacs and the value of the items given by her parents at the time of marriage which is fixed at Rs. There is no reason to disbelieve her statement. The items given by her parents at the time of her marriage is in the use of the plaintiff. Taking into account the amount of cash of Rs. 2 lacs and the value of the items given by her parents at the time of marriage which is fixed at Rs. 1 lac and to provide some amount to the appellant taking into consideration the entire facts and circumstances of the case which we fix it at Rs. 2 lacs so that she may not have to depend on her parents, while declaring that the marriage between the parties has become dead, we direct the plaintiff-respondent to give a total sum of Rs. 5 lacs to the appellant. The direction is in accordance with the provisions of section 25 of the Hindu Marriage Act, towards permanent settlement. The plaintiff-respondent shall deposit the aforesaid amount, within 3 months of the service of the certified copy of this order on the plaintiff-respondent, with the Family Judge, Family Court, Meerut, failing which it shall be open to the appellant to realise the said amount by putting the decree into execution. ( 25 ) WITH the aforesaid observations/directions, the judgment and decree dated 18. 3. 1998 passed by the Family Court is modified. .