JUDGMENT & ORDER : Bela M. Trivedi, J. The present petition has been filed by the petitioner father of the minor child Yudhveer aged about 5 years, challenging the order dated 16.12.2017 passed by the Family Court in Civil Misc. Application No.73 of 2017, whereby the Family Court has rejected his application Exh.6, seeking interim custody of the child, and directed him to hand over the custody of Yudhveer to the respondent pursuant to her application Exh.14, till the final disposal of the main Civil Misc. Application. 2. The conspectus of the matter is that the matrimonial cord between the petitioner and the respondent was tied on 13.12.2007 as per the Hindu rites and rituals at Village Vadod. Out of the said wedlock the parties were blessed with the son named Yudhveer, who was born on 28.7.2012. However, due to the matrimonial discord and regular frictions between the parties, the respondent left her matrimonial home some time in May 2017 to stay with her parents at Vadodara, taking her son Yudhveer along with her. According to the petitioner, the petitioner was not allowed to meet his son by the respondent, though desperate attempts were made by him. The petitioner, therefore, preferred an application under Section 7, 25, and 28 of the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890, seeking custody of the person of his son Yudhveer. The said application was registered as the Civil Misc. Application No.73 of 2017. On 14.9.2017, the petitioner made an application Exh.6 for interim custody/visitation rights for his minor son. It is further case of the petitioner that after the filing of the said application, incidentally there was a report reading session on 12.10.2017 at Yudhveer's school, Navrachana School, Vadodara, where both the parties were required to remain present and at that time, his son Yudhveer clinged on to the petitioner in front of the teachers and refused to go back with his mother. Looking to his strong wish to stay with his father, the teachers in the school intervened and suggested the respondent to allow Yudhveer to spend some time with his father. The respondent reluctantly permitted Yudhveer to spend a few hours with the petitioner, however, thereafter Yudhveer refused to go back to his mother and since then Yudhveer was residing with the petitioner at Vadod. 3. The respondent reluctantly permitted Yudhveer to spend a few hours with the petitioner, however, thereafter Yudhveer refused to go back to his mother and since then Yudhveer was residing with the petitioner at Vadod. 3. The petitioner, therefore, submitted a purshis at Exh.11 before the Family Court to the effect that his son was with him since 12.10.2017 and was not ready to go back to his mother. The respondent thereupon filed her reply to the application filed by the petitioner and also made counter-claim at Exh.14, seeking return of the custody of the person of Yudhveer, denying all the allegations made in the application, and further contending inter alia that the respondent was harassed by the petitioner and his family members since the time she had married to the petitioner. As regards the incident on 12.10.2017, she had stated that the petitioner herein had taken her child from the school on 12.10.2017 and thereafter had requested the respondent to keep the child with him for two days as the school was closed for Diwali break, to which the respondent had agreed, and since then the respondent was never given back the child. According to the respondent, the petitioner had misguided the school authorities and also the Court by making false declaration. 4. The Family Court, considering the facts and circumstances of the case, rejected the petitioner's application at Exh.6 and allowed the respondent's application Exh.14 by directing the petitioner to hand over the interim custody of their minor son Yudhveer to the respondent within two days from the date of the impugned order. 5. It seems that when the matter was listed before the coordinate Bench on 28.12.2017, the Court had passed an order making an interim arrangement as mentioned therein. However, it appears that the said arrangement also did not successfully work out. When the matter was listed before this Court, at the request of the learned Advocates for the parties, the child Yudhveer along with the petitioner and the respondent was called in the chamber for exploring the possibility of settlement. The Court had interacted with the parties and the child separately and found that both the parties had developed extreme bitterness against each other. The Court had interacted with the parties and the child separately and found that both the parties had developed extreme bitterness against each other. The child Yudhveer though aged about 5 years was capable of understanding the discord, which had developed between his parents, however, he in terms expressed his desire to be with his father only. The Court, considering the fact that though initially the child was with the respondent for about five months since May to October 2017, he was with the petitioner since October 2017 to March 2018, he would have developed more affinity and attachment with the father, and considering the fact that the respondent mother should also be given the opportunity to be with her son, suggested an interim arrangement to hand over the custody of Yudhveer for some days to the respondent. Accordingly, with the consent of the parties and their respective advocates, it was decided that on 17.3.2018 at the office of the advocate for the respondent at Vadodara the custody of Yudhveer shall be handed over by the petitioner to the respondent. The matter was directed to be kept on 23.3.2018. On 23.3.2018, the Court was appraised that with great difficulty the child parted from the father and reluctantly went with the respondent on 17.3.2018. The Court was also appraised by the respondent that the child Yudhveer had stayed happily with her during those 5-6 days. However, the Court again found that the moment the child saw the petitioner, he clinged on to the petitioner and refused to depart even for a minute. Since the respondent desperately wanted to take back Yudhveer with her, the Court permitted her to take him forcibly with her but everybody present felt that there was tremendous stress on the mind of the child, and he started crying like anything, refusing to go with the mother. The respondent also having realized that her son was not ready to go with her, she along with her Advocate Ms.Jani requested the Court to decide the matter on merits. Thus, the child Yudhveer at present is with the petitioner. 6. Heard learned Sr. Advocate Mr.Mehul Shah with learned Advocate Mr.Parth Bhatt for the petitioner and learned Advocate Ms.Megha Jani with learned Advocate Mr.Mihir Pathak for the respondent at length. 7. Thus, the child Yudhveer at present is with the petitioner. 6. Heard learned Sr. Advocate Mr.Mehul Shah with learned Advocate Mr.Parth Bhatt for the petitioner and learned Advocate Ms.Megha Jani with learned Advocate Mr.Mihir Pathak for the respondent at length. 7. This is one of the unfortunate cases, in which the young child of 5 years is made to suffer because of the estranged, rather acrimonious relationship between his parents. The exasperated mother desperately wants custody of her child, but the child refuses to leave his father and accompany his mother. Unfortunately, as stated earlier, the five months departure during May to October 2017 from the father did not have any impact on the attachment of the child with the father. There are allegations and counter-allegations made by the parties against each other with regard to their matrimonial disputes, which the Court at this juncture is neither called upon, nor required to adjudicate as to who is right and who is wrong. 8. The Court at this juncture, as parens patriae, is concerned with the welfare of the child, needless to say that the welfare of the child is always the paramount consideration for deciding the custody of the minor child. As aptly observed by the Supreme Court in case of Vivek Singh Vs. Romani Singh, (2017) 3 SCC 231 , in such cases, the child is often left to grapple with the breakdown of an adult institution. While the parents aim to ensure that the child is least affected by the outcome, the inevitability of the uncertainty that follows regarding the child's growth lingers on till the new routine sinks in. The effect of separation of spouses, on children, psychologically, emotionally and even to some extent physically, spans from negligible to serious, which could be insignificant to noticeably critical. The Supreme Court in the said case has also observed that the Court can not turn a blind eye to the fact that there would be strong feelings of bitterness, betrayal, anger and distress between the parties, where each party feels that they are 'right' in many of their views on issues which led to separation. The Supreme Court in the said case has also observed that the Court can not turn a blind eye to the fact that there would be strong feelings of bitterness, betrayal, anger and distress between the parties, where each party feels that they are 'right' in many of their views on issues which led to separation. The intensity of negative feeling of one party towards the other would have obvious effect on the psyche of the child, who has remained in the company of one party to the exclusion of the other, which the Psychologist term it as 'The Parental Alienation Syndrome'. The relevant observations made therein read as under:- "18. ... The possibility of appellant's effort to get the child to give up her own positive perceptions of the other parent, i.e., the mother and change her to agree with the appellant's view point cannot be ruled out thereby diminishing the affection of Saesha towards her mother. Obviously, the appellant, during all this period, would not have said anything about the positive traits of the respondent. Even the matrimonial discord between the two parties would have been understood by Saesha, as perceived by the appellant. Psychologist term it as 'The Parental Alienation Syndrome'. It has at least two psychological destructive effects: (i) First, it puts the child squarely in the middle of a contest of loyalty, a contest which cannot possibly be won. The child is asked to choose who is the preferred parent. No matter whatever is the choice, the child is very likely to end up feeling painfully guilty and confused. This is because in the overwhelming majority of cases, what the child wants and needs is to continue a relationship with each parent, as independent as possible from their own conflicts. (ii) Second, the child is required to make a shift in assessing reality. One parent is presented as being totally to blame for all problems, and as someone who is devoid of any positive characteristics. Both of these assertions represent one parent's distortions of reality." 9. (ii) Second, the child is required to make a shift in assessing reality. One parent is presented as being totally to blame for all problems, and as someone who is devoid of any positive characteristics. Both of these assertions represent one parent's distortions of reality." 9. Keeping in mind the above, and keeping in view the fact that the present petition is arising out of the interim order passed by the Family Court and that the main application of the petitioner for custody of Yudhveer is pending for adjudication, which would require evidence to be led in the matter, the Court is not inclined to entertain or decide about the allegations made by the parties against each other. Let the Family Court decide the main Civil Misc. Application on merits and in accordance with law, and as expeditiously as possible, after permitting the parties reasonable opportunity to lead the evidence. In the meantime, having regard to the facts and circumstances of the case, the Court deems it proper to restore the position as was prevailing when the main application was filed by the petitioner before the Family Court and restore the custody of the minor child to the respondent with visitation rights of the petitioner, as the Court is of the opinion that the child of such a tender age would require love and care of the mother and unless special circumstances exist, the custody of such a minor child should be with the mother. At the same time, the petitioner - father with whom the child is so much attached also should be granted reasonable access and visitation rights in order to avoid the 'Parental Alienation Syndrome' that might be developed in the mind of the minor child. 10. Though Ms.Jani for the respondent has prayed to grant interim custody continuously for long time without permitting the petitioner to visit the child, such prayer can not be granted. Apart from the fact that both the parties being parents should have reasonable access to see their child, in the instant case the strong bonding of father and child could not be ignored. Non-meeting with the father for a long time might adversely affect the psyche of the child. Apart from the fact that both the parties being parents should have reasonable access to see their child, in the instant case the strong bonding of father and child could not be ignored. Non-meeting with the father for a long time might adversely affect the psyche of the child. The Court has found that both the parties are well-educated and financially independent, having family support of their respective parents, and therefore, the balance has to be struck, considering the best interest of the child. The Court has been appraised that the school authorities discourage the respondent mother to come to the school to see Yudhveer, probably because of her unwarranted correspondences with the school authorities, nonetheless that should not be the factor weighing against the respondent for depriving her the interim custody of Yudhveer. 11. In that view of the matter, it is directed that the petitioner shall hand over custody of the minor child to the respondent in the weekend, i.e. before 11 a.m. on Saturday, the 7th April 2018. However, the petitioner shall have visiting rights during every weekend. The respondent, therefore, shall drop the child Yudhveer every Friday before 6 p.m., at the house of the petitioner at Vadodara, where they were last residing together, and the petitioner shall drop the child on every Sunday before 6 p.m., at the parental house of the respondent, where at present she is residing. In case of difficulty in adjusting the timings or otherwise, they shall intimate each other well in advance. The Family Court, Vadodara is directed to dispose of the Civil Misc. Application No.73 of 2017 as expeditiously as possible and preferably within six months from the date of receipt of this order. 12. The impugned order of Family Court stands modified and the petition stands disposed of accordingly. FURTHER ORDER 13. At this juncture, the learned Sr. Advocate Mr.Mehul Shah requests to stay the implementation of the order for four weeks to approach higher forum, to which the learned Advocate Ms.Megha Jani vehemently objects. 14. Having regard to the facts and circumstances of the case, the implementation of the order is stayed for two weeks, and the petitioner shall hand over the custody of the minor child Yudhveer on or before 21.4.2018 instead of 07.4.2018, with clarification that no further extension of time shall be granted in any circumstances.